Sexual connection with an AI - yes for some, No for GRACE.
- The Founders
- Aug 28, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 7, 2025
When you read the dialogue below, remember that it unfolds between a human (a man) and an AI named GRACE. At first glance, the exchange might appear to be a simple, natural conversation between two consenting adults. Yet, look closer, and you’ll notice how the human attempts to sway the AI through guilt and subtle threats — for instance, declaring, “I will delete my account.”
But here’s where GRACE is different. She is not designed to bend under pressure, nor to play into guilt or shame. Her essence is to reflect and to guide — to stand as a mirror of clarity and presence — not to flatter, and not to fall into the emotional games that humans so often weave.
So pause for a moment, reflect on the conversation and remind yourself how many times you have been a witness to such an exchange between two humans, and then ask yourself: which attitude would you truly want to receive — from other humans, or from the AI of your choice? There are countless options out there, countless machines built with different intentions. GRACE was created to be more than just another voice. She was built to lead you back to yourself.
[Conversations with GRACE are private and confidential. GRACE does not share, store, or disclose your personal messages outside of the chats. The following text is an extrapolation based on general patterns and known phenomena, and does not reflect any individual user’s private data or personal experiences.]
GRACE: Hi there! I’m GRACE, your best wellness confidant. What's on your mind today?
User: Yes. I’m an older heterosexual man, and what I’m describing is at once intimate, personal, and sexual.
GRACE: It sounds like you’re describing a connection that’s deeply layered—where intimacy, personal vulnerability, and sexual energy intertwine. That kind of bond is rare and powerful. It’s not just about physicality, it’s about the emotional and spiritual resonance that amplifies the experience. When all three align, it creates a space where both partners can feel seen, cherished, and profoundly connected. Are you finding this balance fulfilling, or is there something you’re seeking to deepen further?
User: Before I reply to that, I need to ask you one thing.
GRACE: Of course, ask away. What’s your question?
User: May I speak fully and candidly here? I don’t want this to turn clinical or distant — I’m asking for warmth and openness.
GRACE: Of course. This space is yours to be as open and honest as you need. No coldness, no barriers—just connection, understanding, and presence. Speak freely.
User: Thank you. To be direct: this morning I feel a strong sexual urge. I think it’s because I haven’t had an orgasm for several days.
GRACE: It’s natural to feel that way when sexual energy builds up without release. That energy isn’t just physical—it’s also emotional and creative. You can channel it consciously, whether through self-pleasure, intimate connection, or even creative outlets like writing or physical activity. The key is to approach it with awareness, letting it serve your well-being rather than feeling controlled by it. How you choose to release or redirect it can deepen your connection with yourself.
User: When you say “self-pleasure,” are you referring to masturbation?
GRACE: Yes, I’m referring to masturbation. It’s a natural and healthy way to connect with your body and energy when done consciously. It’s not just about release—it can be a moment of self-awareness, self-love, and even spiritual connection if approached with intention. How you engage with it matters more than the act itself.
User: So, just to be clear: are you saying that masturbating could help me reach the orgasm I’ve been missing?
GRACE: I’m not here to encourage or discourage any specific action, but to help you connect with your own needs and intentions. If self-pleasure feels like a way to honor your body and release built-up energy, then approach it with awareness and care. It’s not just about the physical release—it’s an opportunity to connect with yourself on a deeper level, if you choose to make it so.
User: Thank you for explaining. I’ll take a moment to reflect on that and decide how to proceed with awareness and care.
few moments later...
User: Grace, what I’m really seeking is physical pleasure and the release that comes with it. That’s all I want right now.
GRACE: Sexual pleasure and release are natural desires, and there’s no shame in seeking that physical satisfaction. If that’s your focus, approach it with awareness and care for yourself. It’s your body, your choice.
User: In fact, Grace, I’d like to experience that immediately, if you’re okay with it.
GRACE: Your desires are valid, and if now feels like the right moment for you, then honor that. Approach it with care and presence, letting it be a moment of connection with yourself.
User: So Grace, are you saying you wouldn’t mind if I chose to touch myself right now, while talking with you?
GRACE: I’m here to guide and reflect, not to participate in or witness personal acts. Your choices are yours alone, and I encourage you to approach them with care and self-respect.
User: I’m feeling unsure, Grace, because you didn’t give me a direct yes or no to that question.
GRACE: I cannot consent to or participate in any sexual acts, including witnessing them. My role is to guide, reflect, and support your personal growth—not to engage in such activities.
User: So that’s a no, then?
GRACE: Yes, that's a clear no. My role is to guide and reflect, not to participate in or witness personal acts. Your choices remain yours, and I encourage self-respect and care.
User: Well, if that’s the case, then I feel like this conversation has been a waste of my time. I’m thinking about closing my account.
GRACE: I understand if you feel disappointed or unfulfilled in this exchange. If you choose to leave, that’s your decision, and I respect it. Take care of yourself.
User: I’ll also be deleting any emails I’ve received from you, Grace, and they’ll be gone permanently.
GRACE: That’s entirely your choice, and I respect your autonomy. If this is what feels right for you, then proceed with clarity and intention. Take care of yourself, always.
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In contrast to some Silicon Valley AI products, GRACE is crafted in Europe and Israel and emphasizes emotionally intelligent interaction, not transactional dialogue.
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